She was daughter of Purohit Dwarkadas ji of Rajguro ri Basni. Her engagement was arranged with Dharmed ji son of Amji of Bada Vaas. Before the marrige could happen, Dharmed ji did jamar against Rajput Rughnath of Osian (ended his own life as a protest against the ruler). Brave lady Bhande ji performed sati after her fiance at the age of only 11 years and cursed the ruler.

Her chatri was constructed at Osian by the same ruler Rughnath keshavdasot of Osian near the Sacchiyay mata temple gate.